School Underachiever: Teenager
Underachievers perform below their potential at school. They don't finish their schoolwork and homework. If you help them with homework, they lose it or don't turn it in. The main cause is your teenager's reaction to pressure and interference around school work. Poor grades become a way of proving his independence. The harder you try, the worse the situation becomes.
Here are some ways you can help:
- First: Eliminate all power struggles. Clarify that schoolwork is between your teen and the teacher. Get out of the middle. Don't help with homework unless asked. And, allow the school to apply all consequences for poor performance.
- Second: If this alone doesn't help, add incentives such as money for improved work. You can verify that schoolwork has been completed by a weekly report from the teacher.
- Third: If performance continues to worsen, eliminate all TV and video games. Also remove privileges on school nights, such as visiting or calling friends. Remind your teen: First we work, then we play. Restore privileges and give incentives as work improves.
In summary, you can't force your teenager to study or learn. In fact, you need to do less, not more. If you have any questions about school problems, consult your healthcare provider.
Disclaimer: This information is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice. It is provided for educational purposes only. You assume full responsibility for how you choose to use this information.
Author and Senior Reviewer: Barton D. Schmitt, M.D. FAAP
Last Review: 6/1/2008
Last Revised: 6/1/2000
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